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Normally, I like to stick to light and fluffy things like how-to’s and reviews. I don’t get up on my soapbox often and I don’t like to mess up people’s days by spreading things that I wasn’t happy to learn. Today is a bit different. The fundamental shift in the way we gather, process, and spread information, while having a hugely positive affect on social efforts like fund and awareness raising, has an equally destructive affect when in the hands of those whose moral centre lays somewhere a billion or so feet below ground. What happened on Facebook over the past week — and is still happening now — is every bit as horrible and disgusting to me as the act that preceded it. I am, quite frankly, unable to fully process it, which is why I am writing about it, trying to put it into some sort of sense.
I live in the Vancouver area (Canada), not far from a relatively small suburb that is mostly a farming town. Last Saturday night, a rave was held in Pitt Meadows. At this rave, a 16 year old girl was separated from her friends, most likely drugged, and gang raped by seven males, in a field in the back of the home. A 16 year old boy took pictures of the act — and then posted them on Facebook. If both of those things weren’t disgusting enough, you won’t believe what happened next. The photos went viral. Even though Facebook acted fairly quickly, once informed, and removed the pictures, people were sharing them with other people. People were downloading the pictures to their computers. They apparently keep resurfacing, no matter what lengths the police and others have gone to remove them.
What kind of sick, bloody, world do we live in? Oh, I am perfectly aware that things like gang rape and other deplorable acts have gone on since the beginning of mankind, and are likely going on even as we read this — but for people to actively participate in this sort of thing by sharing it with others and saving it for later viewing and yet more sharing?? That is the sort of thing that makes me want to say to hell with the world, the internet, social media, and people in general, and take my wife and 2yr old daughter to live somewhere far off and secluded, in the middle of nowhere. I really, truly, cannot process or in any way understand this sort of behaviour. I think that everyone involved, including those perpetuating this disgusting mess, should be made to understand exactly what that poor girl went through. Figuratively of course.
I am not an advocate of capital punishment — not usually — but things like this make me reconsider that stance. There have been at least two arrests, thus far, one of them being the boy who posted the photos, and another an 18 year old male who allegedly participated in the assault.
Your average human being with a heart will be horrified enough by what happened to the girl. How, then, are we supposed to react to or handle people gaining enjoyment from photos of such a thing — and then continuing to use the world’s new social medium to share and spread that twisted enjoyment with others — who also enjoy it? I’m at a loss. Is there even a precedent for prosecution for that, outside of child pornography cases?
I really don’t know.
You can get more information at the Vancouver Sun’s website.
dave says:
Disgusting indeed. Why would people spread them further? Perhaps it was curiosity, maybe people where spending it because it was such an unbelievable post/act? Its certainly difficult to know.
This is indeed the ugly face of social media sites and the problem is we are all the moderators of ourselves until FB steps in.
September 18, 2010 — 3:11 am
Bobby Travis says:
Thanks for the comment, Dave. I appreciate your optimistic view. I find myself hoping that the boy who took the pictures was in shock or something and actually trying to help. That doesn’t seem to be the case, though, thus far.
September 18, 2010 — 2:25 pm
Dave says:
Bobby don’t get me wrong, I tend to view idiosyncrasies of human behaviour on the cynical side…so much that I’ve argued with my wife that I want “People are idiots” on my grave stone.
Something shes currently resisting but I`ll have my way!
September 18, 2010 — 4:05 pm
Bobby Travis says:
Dave… I believe you are my hero.
September 18, 2010 — 4:57 pm
Alison Kerr says:
I am very saddened by this awful tale. I simply don’t understand human nature when it comes to this kind of thing. It’s like when there is an accident in the city – people stop to watch. I never ‘got’ that. Who wants to participate in someone else’s hurt and misery? Apparently a good number of my fellow “human beings”. It’s shameful! Jump in and help, or don’t get involved.
September 18, 2010 — 7:44 pm
Bobby Travis says:
I agree heartily, Allison. The “stop and look” mentality that people get at an accident site confounds me too — but I get that more than this.
Thanks for the comment. :)
September 18, 2010 — 7:48 pm
kosmo @ The Soap Boxers says:
Aside from the absolutely sickening nature of the act itself (and the actions of those sharing the photos), how absolutely stupid do you have to be to post those photos online? Seems fairly reasonable that at least 1 person who saw them would notify police.
September 18, 2010 — 11:40 pm
Bobby Travis says:
Well, I’m glad somebody said it. As has been said by many: it appears that common sense is not that common. I think the first poster of the images wanted to get caught. Maybe his subconscious was crying out for help or something.
September 19, 2010 — 2:12 am
Kevin says:
I agree completely, common sense is not that common. I live in Vancouver as well, and my initial reaction was the same, neatly underlining the value of the adversarial court system, since regardless of what was read in the paper, no matter how I felt upon reading it, I said “Wait, wait… wait for the court case.” That’s common sense.
As to the lack of empathy, apparently the part of our brains that handles recognizing distress in faces is only fully developed at around 19 years old, a fact which explains why child soldiers are so terrifying in the extreme case, and why we , on average, become far less irritating in our 20’s then our teens.
If they go to jail, then there will be biblical justice for this alleged act, we can be sure. Jail is not a place where they only lock one up, after all. Regardless, they’re done. The same viral crime they’ve committed, by the kiddie porn ( That’s what this is ) will follow them for life, regardless. No publication ban will stop it, minors or not.
Idiots. The above is common sense. They’re done, regardless.
As for us, the people who have been using these services responsibly, well, on the defensive again.
September 20, 2010 — 2:47 am
Bobby Travis says:
Nice to hear from another local on the subject, Kevin, thanks for the comment. I also tried to adopt a “wait for the court case” ideal, but the continued spreading of the pictures drove me a bit past my threshold.
I appreciate the insight into the development of the mind, as well — that was something I didn’t know, and could at least give me something to anchor on for further intellectual processing.
September 21, 2010 — 2:53 am
Bobby Travis says:
This Mashable article I just came across is kind of a “case in point” post-it note to all of this: http://mashable.com/2010/09/21/ethical-consideration-online/
It’s about a Harvard study that finds youth are lacking in ethics when it comes to their use of digital technologies.
Hnh. Maybe the wild and barely managed frontier that is social media is a breeding ground for Lord of the Flies-like behaviours?
September 21, 2010 — 3:01 am